I always believe that it’s good to reinforce the positive because then you’ll get more of it. Likewise (and you probably know someone like this), if you’re mopey all the time, most likely things are happening in your life for you have reason to mope. Sometimes I think we just have to make a conscious [...]
Are there things about yourself that you really like and can totally appreciate? I mean, c’mon I’m sure there is a list of things we don’t like about ourselves. How about tipping the scales a little bit on the other side for once? One of the dorky things I like about myself is the ability [...]
I’m a thinker. I think a lot. I probably think too much. I know that when I start feeling like things are too tough right now, I look for the lesson to learn. My dear friend and teacher, Victoria Castle, wrote in her book Trance of Scarcity, “If struggling were the way to get there, [...]
Oh no. Not you? Who’d it be? Certainly not me!
Yes, it’s true. I’ve become THAT woman. You know the one. The woman you talk about with your closest girlfriend (who I call my “sistafriends”), where you can throw around the dirt and it’s safe – the conversation doesn’t leave the kitchen counter (or wine bar). [...]
Where am I these days? Am I lost? No. Well maybe a little bit. I’m working on finding my way through a storm.
Am I okay? Yes, but weary. I need to find my peaceful waters. I am close. I can feel it.
So, how do I get there? Writing. I can feel my way through. [...]